It is very frustrating and heartbreaking part of a breakup that you try really hard to get your ex boyfriend to talk to you. The more you try to talk to him, the farther he pulls away from you. Now the question is how to get your ex back boyfriend when he won’t even want to talk to you. The answer is to make your ex boyfriend miss you badly and also to create such a curiosity in his mind that he calls you by himself and beg you to come back to his life.
Here is how to get your ex back when he won’t talk to you.
The foremost thing to do is to honor his wishes and give him some space. It is important not to try to talk to him right after a breakup because at this time, both of you are not in any emotional shape to do any kind of conversation. Constantly calling and sending text messages will only make him more upset and worst of all it can make up his mind that he will never talk to you again. So, you should stop trying to get him to talk.
The best thing to do is to disappear from his radar for several weeks and let him think why you are not trying to contact him, what happened to you. Absence will force him to wonder and the more absent you are right now, the better for you.
A couple of weeks later, it’s time to be able to communicate with him. All you need to do is to work on your ex boyfriend’s male psyche and arouse his curiosity. This will work just like magic as it works on his psyche and creates a mystery or puzzle that will force him to want to know the answer.
Just send him an email or text message. Remember do not become impatient and avoid to go blasting him with hundreds of emails or text messages if he does not call you for few days as it might take a little time to make him call you. You patience will also help a lot in compelling him call you.
In the email or text message, just tell him that you are very thankful to him for his help in teaching you something very important and that you would very much appreciate his call because you need more advice on the matter.
The purpose of this email or text message is to make him have the irresistible desire to know what you mean by the message in the email. As his curiosity arouse, he will have to call you to get to the bottom of it.
While waiting for his call, it is essential to keep your emotions under control. When he calls you, just be strong. Crying, begging, or demanding will simply ruin everything. Be calm and let him be first to bring up the email.
When he asks you what you meant by the words in the email, you need to be very honest and sincere. Tell him that the important thing that he has taught you is that it is best to put the wishes and needs of someone you love above your own, and apologize for hurting him. This one simple email will surely open up communications and start you on the road to getting your ex back.